
Public Speaking
Public Speaking 101
How to express yourself confidently when you’re talking with more than a few people

How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere
The Secrets of Good Communication
by Larry King

How to Develop Self-Confidence & Influence People by Public Speaking

The Upside of Stress
Why Stress Is Good for You, and How to Get Good at It

The Charisma Myth
How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism

Presence
Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges
by Amy Cuddy

To Sell Is Human
The Surprising Truth About Moving Others

Choke
What the Secrets of the Brain Reveal About Getting It Right When You Have To
by Sian Beilock

The Tools
Transform Your Problems into Courage, Confidence, and Creativity
by Phil Stutz and Barry Michels

Coming Alive
4 Tools to Defeat Your Inner Enemy, Ignite Creative Expression & Unleash Your Soul’s Potential
by Phil Stutz and Barry Michels

Unbeatable Mind
Forge Resiliency and Mental Toughness to Succeed at an Elite Level
by Mark Divine

Mastering Creative Anxiety
24 Lessons for Writers, Painters, Musicians, and Actors from America's Foremost Creativity Coach
by Eric Maisel

Ego Is the Enemy
by Ryan Holiday

Daring Greatly
How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
by Brené Brown

Crazy Good
A Book of CHOICES
"I'm Excited!"
#27
What to Say to Yourself When You’re Feeling Nerves
Alison Wood Brooks is a researcher at Harvard Business School. She studies the most effective strategy for dealing with acute stress.
Presence
#160
Expanding into Your Best Self
In our last +1, we talked about the fact that the word courage comes from the Latin word for “heart.” Just as our heart pumps blood to the rest of our body, our COURAGE pumps energy to our other virtues.
Fear & Expectations
#363
How to Move from Fear to Excitement
Quick pop quiz: Are you afraid of something these days?
Mirror Mirror on the Wall
#599
I Shall Cover You So I Don’t Fall
In our last +1, we talked about the subtle but significant distinction I made in the lead-up to my first-ever keynote talk. Specifically, I used the tools “Bring it on!” and “I’m excited!” THE MOMENT I felt any doubt or fear or anxiety creeping into my head.
How Clark Kent Becomes Superman in 11 Seconds
#660
Flipping the (Superhero) Identity Switch (Then Reflipping/Ducktaping It So It Sticks All Day Every Day)
In our last +1, we talked about our inaugural Heroic Coach program (there’s still a little more time to sign up and join hundreds of other passionate Heroes in making this the greatest year of our lives while helping others in our lives do the same, btw).
Fear Is Excitement
#691
Without the Breath
Continuing our exploration of how to Conquer Fear, how about a simple yet profound piece of wisdom from Fritz Perls, founder of Gestalt Therapy?
Springsteen Says: “I’m Excited!”
#984
Epic Wisdom from The Boss
A couple +1s ago, I briefly mentioned the fact that Marie Forleo is the one who introduced me to the idea of “’Friend Power.” (Thanks, Marie!)
Connection over Perfection
#1026
A Big Idea from Public Speaking 101
This morning Alexandra and I were chatting about her new Heroic +1s.
Mindful Presentations
#1027
Ellen Langer on How to Give Them
In our last +1, we hung out with Alexandra and Steve Chandler and John Madden as we talked about Connection over Perfection.
iHunch
#166
What Not to Do If You Want to Be Powerful
A few +1s ago, we talked about Amy Cuddy’s research on how quickly you can build your power and presence by simply expanding your body. We’ve also talked about the research on The iPhone Effect—which tells us that simply having a phone in sight diminishes the quality of your interactions.
How to Use Our Optimizing Tools
#598
Hint: Practice THE MOMENT You Need It
A little while back, we talked about the keynote talk I was getting ready to present (as part of the Pritzker Group Venture Capital’s annual event for the 60+ portfolio CEOs). Today I’d like to give a quick update on how it went and then talk about how I dealt with my nerves leading up to it—with an emphasis on a little distinction I made about how to apply the “Bring it on!” and “I’m excited!” tools.
Squirrels, Einstein and You
#537
Two Mindsets: Training vs. Trusting
In our last +1, we had fun dominating our dishes with Byron Katie.
Asking for Qualities
#965
A Quick Way to Flip the Switch
In our last +1, we spent some time with Todd Herman, Batman, Dora the Explorer and YOUR most heroic self.
Ideal Performance State
#311
Emotional Consistency and Peak Performance
Jim Loehr is one of the world’s leading authorities on peak performance.
Begin Before You Begin
#490
How to Transition to the New You
In our last +1, we talked about zambonis for your brain. Also known as naps. We added a Dan Pink-inspired addition of a cup of coffee right before to make it a nappuccino. (You try it out?! 🤠)
Positivity, Science of
#552
For Peak Performance in Sports and in Life
Continuing our time with world-class CrossFit coach Ben Bergeron, let’s look at another one of his champion characteristics: Positivity.
Your Engine: V-12 or V-Lawnmower?
#690
Which Will It Be?
Continuing our theme of seeking/conquering fear, let’s have some fun with Jon Eliot and his wisdom from Overachievement.
On Humility
#1054
Thinking of Ourselves Less
This morning I was reading John Maxwell’s new book on leadership called Leadershift.
Exiting the Cast of Our Comfort Zones
#730
And Letting the Surge and Power of Life’s Challenges Fuel our Optimizing
In our last couple +1s, we met my bionic arm and its currently atrophied forearm that I’m now rehabilitating. 💪
Practice: When Can I Stop?
#857
Great Ones Say…
In our last +1, we hung out with Kobe Bryant and Alan Stein in the gym at 4am.
Falling on Your Butt
#955
Approximately 20,000 Times
Geoff Colvin’s Talent Is Overrated is a great book.
Rise to the Occasion
#1202
Be Your Very Best in the Darkest Moments
In our last +1, we spent some more time with Admiral McRaven and invited Rocky to the party (via Desmond Clark) to share his wisdom on the fact that life will (inevitably!) knock us down and that it’s all about having the courage to GET BACK UP.
SEALs and Hoosiers
#1219
Get Your Tape Measure Out and Let’s Go!
In our last +1, we made it through one evolution at a time with William McRaven as he endured Hell Week and became a Navy SEAL.
Peak Performance You
#1220
Flip the Switch—TODAY!
In our last +1, we got an inspiring (Hoosiers-inspired) pep talk from Admiral McRaven right before engaging in our next most important mission.
Neutral Thinking
#1259
vs. Positive and Negative Thinking
A couple +1s ago, we had some fun hanging out with Trevor Moawad and discussed some wisdom from his great book: It Takes What It Takes.
The Optimizer in the Arena
#572
Daring Greatly Daily
In our last +1, we talked about daring greatly, being willing to enter the arena of life and getting up every time we get knocked down.
Vulnerability Hangovers
#418
Ever Had One?
Brené Brown tells us that what we all really want from other people is for them to be authentic. And that means we need them to be vulnerable.
The Thread Thru Your Head
#462
Pull It Up for Poise and Relaxed Power
On June 8th, 2001, I was on the back patio of my apartment a block from the beach in La Jolla, California reading Michael Gelb’s How to Think Like Leonardo da Vinci.
Ballet, Anyone?
#600
Head Threads + Power Poses + Thor’s Hammer
In our last couple +1s, we talked about the lead-up to a recent keynote talk I gave and some wisdom gleaned in the process—including practicing the “Bring it on!” and “I’m excited!” tools THE MOMENT I experienced doubt/fear/etc. and… Hanging towels over mirrors to reduce the ol’ self-consciousness.
