
Parenting
Mommahood 101
How to celebrate motherhood—the most creative work of your life! (special guest teacher: Alexandra!)
Fatherhood 101
How to win dad of the year while doing your life's work

Self-theories
Their Role in Motivation, Personality, and Development (Essays in Social Psychology)
by Carol Dweck

Grit
The Power of Passion and Perseverance

10 Rules for Resilience
Mental Toughness for Families
by Joe De Sena

The Path to Purpose
How Young People Find Their Calling in Life

The World According to Mister Rogers
Important Things to Remember
by Fred Rogers

Many Ways to Say I Love You
Wisdom for Parents and Children from Mister Rogers
by Fred Rogers

You Are Special
Words of Wisdom for All Ages from a Beloved Neighbor
by Fred Rogers

Mindset
The New Psychology of Success
by Carol Dweck

Parenting Champions
What Every Parent Should Know About the Mental Game

The Last Lecture
by Randy Pausch

Nonviolent Communication
A Language of Life

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver

A Complaint Free World
How to Stop Complaining and Start Enjoying the Life You Always Wanted
by Will Bowen

Eat Move Sleep
How Small Choices Lead to Big Changes
by Tom Rath
Bring Forth
#17
How to Be a Wise Parent (for Yourself + Others)
As you might have noticed, it’s easy to stress ourselves out as we strive to step up to our heroic potential.
The Most Dangerous Thing You Can Do While “Multitasking”
#52
Can You Guess What It Is? (Now Quit Doing It!)
We’ve established the fact that our brains don’t have parallel processors like a computer. As much as we’d like to think that we can multitask, we can’t.
Repairing Relationships
#135
A Key Practice for Optimizing the Love in Our Lives
In our last +1 we chatted about the difference between FALLING in love and STANDING in love.
Deep Love Time Blocks
#158
When’s Your Next Time Block?
We’ve talked a ton about Deep Work and going Deep in general.
How to Child-Proof Cover Your Trigger Buttons
#366
Annoyed? Ask: How Am I That?
In our last +1, we talked about shadows and attending your own lectures.
Antifragile Affirmactions
#428
How to Use Micro-Moments of Frustration to Grow
Today we’re going to have some fun mapping out how to use micro-moments of frustration to catalyze the next-best version of you, antifragile style.
Reclaiming Lost Hours
#481
By Making Everything (!) Our Practice
Before we bid farewell to George Leonard, how about ONE more little idea from the Aikido (and life) master?
The Mystery of the Hairy Fingers
#601
You’ll Laugh About It in 5 Years So Why Wait?
One of my challenges as I step up my athletic game is finding the time to train as I have some very tight time constraints on how much time I’m willing to put into my training.
Parenting: 3 Tips
#606
Lessons on How to Be a Great Dad
At the end of my recent talk I keep on talking about 😉, one of the CEOs came up and asked me how to apply the wisdom I shared to his parenting. He had a 5-year-old like me.
Leonidas + Little Leo
#716
The (Johnson) Optimizing Game
Not too long ago, I introduced you to Leonidas—my Spartan sweatband. Yes, I realize it’s ridiculous that I wear this all day every day. That’s the whole point. (Hah.)
I Like You
#869
Just the Way You Are
After watching that Mister Rogers documentary I keep talking about (this one), we got a bunch of his books. One of them is a recently published, beautifully illustrated collection of his poetry-songs called A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood.
Are You Intexticated?
#889
A Friendly Optimizing PSA
The other day Grandma and Grandpa visited to hang out with the E’s. We had a nice time. 😍
Stoic Shipwrecks
#892
And Kids at the Park Biting You
In our last +1, we had fun reflecting on a new ritual Emerson and I are having fun with. It’s been super fun to reflect on ancient Stoic wisdom via Ryan Holiday’s modern medallions. (Thanks, Ryan!)
Cool- (+Kid-)ifying Investing
#921
Rather than Spending Every Dollar We Have
Not too long ago, we started giving Emerson $10 every week.
Compounding Cash (for Kids)
#922
The Magic of Money Multiplying
In our last +1, we talked about how I’m attempting to make the idea of saving and investing money much cooler than constantly spending money.
“I Found Something!”
#1048
The "I Love You” Game
As we’ve discussed many times, one of my absolute favorite things to do in life is curl up in bed next to Emerson and read together. It’s an essential part of our PM Bookend and one we miss only on rare occasions.
Exploding Fist Bumps of Love
#1057
🤜💥🤛 → 🤟 💥 🤟
This morning I was wrapping up yet another AM1 Deep Work session when I heard the tap-tap-tap little knock on the office door.
How You React
#1080
Small Things vs. Dramatic Things
In our last couple +1s, we flipped through my notes from session number 150-something with my Yoda/spiritual Godfather Phil Stutz.
How We All Spell Love
#1081
T.I.M.E.
In our last +1, we wrapped up the tour of my notes from a recent chat with Phil.
Relationship Bid Math
#1085
How's Yours?
In our last +1, we talked about being Efficient vs. Effective.
Bid Math Part 2
#1086
Addition by Subtraction
In our last +1, we hung out with Jon Gottman and learned that successful marriages feature partners responding to one another’s bids. (Did you do your quick, napkin Relationship Bid Math?)
Kid Bid Algorithms
#1087
Our Ticket to Mom or Dad of the Year Ceremonies
In our last couple +1s, we’ve been talking about Jon Gottman and his wisdom on how to make a marriage work.
How to Say “I Love You”
#1140
In Squeezy-eze
A little over seven and half years ago, Emerson was born at home.
Balloon Breathing
#1144
For Kids (and Their Parents)
In our last +1, we practiced some virtue mastery via our new (and always-evolving) Virtuegong practice.
Hero Breathing
#1145
For Kids (and Their Parents)
In our last +1, we blew up some belly balloons with our kids.
Sugar Math
#1178
It Adds Up. Fast!
In our last +1, we did some detective work and discovered that sugar is often disguised with 61 different names.
The Cleanup Game
#1258
How to Drop Into Flow (-> Bored to Awesome)
Big news at the Johnson house: We recently got a new robot vacuum cleaner. (Hah.)
Your Stinkin’ Thinkin’
#1260
Chickens, Poop, and Neutral Thinking
In our last +1, we spent some more time with Trevor Moawad and explored some more wisdom from his great book, It Takes What It Takes.
The Flat Tire
#1261
And the Ultimate Question: What Do You Want?
In our last couple +1s, we’ve been chatting about Trevor Moawad’s wisdom on what he calls “neutral thinking.”
Spray Painting Leaves
#1270
Wise Gardening for Mind Body and Soul
In our last +1, we hung out with some scientists and doctors who decided to test whether or not FOOD prescriptions would be more cost-effective (and health-boosting effective) than just normal prescriptions for medicine.